Feeling left behind with friends - cause of quarter life crisis

The more friends we have, the more often we compare ourselves to our friends.
When our friends have better jobs, higher education, and more partners interesting to be a disappointment in itself because we are not able to be able to love or equal to what friends we have. Even though comparing ours with others is not a wise thing, we never know behind the actual struggle our friends do maybe they are more struggle against ourselves.

Start questioning yourself

For the first 18 years of our lives, we live under the norms and culture in which we live. Norm and that culture is sometimes different from what we have experienced, read and embraced. Becoming an adult in Eastern countries do not mean completely free from the shadow of their parents. Parents still play a role take part in our lives, such as weddings where parents still interfere in holding the party wedding. When we start living independently, sometimes there is a dilemma when the norms we adhere to do not match with the norms of the parents. The turmoil that arises inside becomes a crisis in itself contained within the individual, because of the fear of fighting, not being accepted, stigma and various things other negative things that can happen to us.

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